Wow, this sounds like a highly confrontational question doesn't it? in actual fact, while it may seem confronting, I think this is a question we should ask OURSELVES (IE, don't go brow beating people with this question, it's not nice *smile*) and figure out where we stand.
There are a couple of stances we can take on this life of ours.
We can decide the world is against us, that all things are negative, that we play the "hand we're dealt," and do nothing to change the status quo, that we do not reach out to fellow human beings and that it is every "man" for themselves. I know there are a fair few people currently in this camp, and that's their choice.
Alternatively, we could take the view that while some awful things happen, there is always something we can look forwards to, there is light at the end of every tunnel, that we are blessed each day that we get to draw breath and see the glorious wonder of our world. We can choose to take a hand in manifesting the perfect reality for us, that we can lead by example, show love, kindness and forgiveness towards others and ourselves and that we are never alone in our trials because our divine team walks with us always.
So, who's team are you on? Do you believe and trust that the path towards the world of our dreams is through love, kindness and forgiveness? Or would you rather be in the camp that has decided it's every man, woman and child for themselves? Make no mistake, this is a choice!
I lift up my voice everyday knowing that I am loved and that the path to the perfect world is through reaching out to my fellow human beings with love and kindness in my heart. How about you?
With love and light