Wednesday 28 March 2012

What are you focused on?

You know, one of the things that popped into my head yet again today was the thought that you get what you wish for....more accurately though, you get what you choose to focus on.


When you are caught in a situation that is not what you want, a job that does not suit you, a relationship that does not seem to be working, just on the wrong bus...whatever it is...there can be no solution to the problem, while you are focused on the fact that you have a problem.


If the only thing you can think about is the problem and the fact that you have one, and that it is unfair, unjust, untenable (whatever word applies to your situation) then your team, your divine self and the universe has no options open in helping you to find a solution!


There are some people in this world, who unfortunately for them, cannot see past the fact that there is  a problem...this is unfortunate because it means their whole attention and focus is on the problem...so, according to the laws of the universe, they will get more problems just like it. Whatever you focus your will and your mind on, is what you will receive more of!


What if, instead of focusing on, talking and thinking about, complaining about, railing against the fact that there is a problem, you asked your team to find a solution? What if you set yourself the task of asking and thinking about, talking about and writing about a solution to the problem rather than the problem itself?


Then, the universe will start making things happen, your team steps in (because you gave them permission) and, because you have switched focus to a favourable outcome rather than continuing to dwell on the problem itself...a solution appears, an opportunity to manage the situation arrives, "miraculously" the moment passes and you have barely felt a ripple.


This is a much better plan I believe, than focusing on a problem until it seems you are watching an approaching tsunami.


You have a choice about how you perceive the world and where you place your focus. Try focusing on solutions instead of problems and see the difference it can make to your life.


With love and light


xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

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